Imagine being able to say that OJ Simpson once smiled at me! Guess what? It really happened. This is the story of my “brush” with the famous.
When I transferred to the University of Southern California in the fall of 1968, I knew little about college football. At the time, I was soon to discover, USC was an athletic powerhouse, thanks to a phenomenal bunch of handpicked athletes in a variety of sports. The Trojans dominated in football, men’s and women’s basketball and swimming. Not only that, but their track and field teams were equally strong due to multisport athletes.
Football begins the season. Banners covered surfaces all across the campus. Rallies were held every day and when the teams weren’t at home, all ears were tuned to the radio. You either followed the sports or you were an outcast. It was that simple.
The athletes, no matter what sport or how great they were, dominated the social life of the campus. Partying to celebrate their successes was a nightly affair since some team played almost every day, whether at home or away. If they weren’t off playing or pratcicing, they strutted their stuff around campus, practically oozing greatness.
I quickly learned the “culture,” of partying. There was a booze-filled affair the night before a game, partying during the game, and another party after the game, all in celebration of a victory won or a record broken. And if you didn’t find what you were looking for at one party, all you had to do was stroll down fraternity row to find another. This was especially important if you didn’t like the booze being served or the music thundering out onto the street.
None of the better-known athletes lived in the Greek houses and few had their own apartments. Instead they had their own dorm which was shielded from the peasants by locked doors and glazed windows. It was rumored that their meal options weren’t the standard bland food that the rest of us got: instead legend had it that they feasted on huge, juicy steaks, fresh vegetables and a cornucopia of cheeses and desserts.
When they had nothing better to do they swaggered about campus in their lettermen jackets emblazoned with every type of recognition (except for a noticeable lack of academic awards). That’s not to say they weren’t capable, but at that time, achievements on the field or court were what kept them at college, not the grades received or classes taken.
With their rippling muscles, impossibly broad shoulders, and over-confident leers dished out to fawning fans, they stood far above the crowd. And they knew it.
Periodically small groups of “stars” strolled through my dining hall, snickering at the dismal fare splattered on institutional grade plates and trays. I imagined that they had just dined on mounds of steak cooked to perfection, served with steaming mashed potatoes and crisp fresh greens.
Equality among students did not exist and there was no pretense of leveling the playing field, because the athletes were, literally, the bread and butter of university funding. The stronger the athletes, the more likely the university would rack up victories, which then correlated to increased donations from alumni.
If I hadn’t been awed by their very presence, I should have despised the athletes for they were the epitome of all that I was not. My family was low income which qualified me for a rather generous “pity” scholarship from the state of California. Without that gift I would not have been at such a prestigious college as USC. But, like the vast majority of students, I didn’t hate the arrogant athletes, but rather worshipped the ground they walked on.
One evening, in a rather unusual move for me, I got as dressed up as I could and went downstairs where a dance was being held in the cafeteria. I am not sure what possessed me to go as I was a horrific dancer. I was also painfully shy and so operated solo the vast majority of the time, in classes as well as while on campus.
I did have friends, academics like me, but more extreme for their heads dwelt more in the clouds than in reality. None of them were what I considered marriageable as they were more interested in finding a spouse to complete a given responsibility than having a relationship of equals. But, like any teenager, I yearned to have a boyfriend. The dance “called” my name, speaking to me of an opportunity to meet, greet and date and so I went.
The dining hall had been transformed, as much as possible, into a disco dance hall. With lights down low, revolving points of light danced across the walls, creating an eerie spectacle of glowing, gyrating bodies. It wasn’t Halloween, but the bizarre lighting gave off the same feel.
The music was ear-shattering making it impossible to do more than look at all the beautiful people. I meandered about the perimeter of the room with a plastic smile glued to my face, hoping that just one person would nod kindly in my direction. Once my circuit was completed with no takers found, I wanted nothing more but to leave this place of loneliness among confusion.
I headed toward the door, but just as I got within sight of the doorjamb, the crowd parted as miraculously as the Red Sea. In walked none other than OJ Simpson, flanked by two humongous football players.
OJ was an incredibly handsome man with an earthy skin tone that spoke of roots, faithfulness, integrity, and family. His eyes sparkled and a shy smile gave a sensuous lift to his lips. I saw no semblance of arrogance, but warmth.
Like the rest of the crowd, I stood transfixed, enjoying simply being in the presence of greatness. This was OJ’s year, the year he earned the Heisman Trophy, broke a number of records, and was first pick in the professional football draft. Everyone knew that he was bound for the record halls and that his name would be spoken around the world.
As the trio neared me I was shoved back into the crowd. I didn’t mind, for I intrinsically knew that these men were well beyond my social reach. What I didn’t expect or count on was being seen.
As O’s greatness neared me, his eyes glanced in my direction and he smiled. Not an I-want-to-talk-to-you smile, but one that recognized me as a fellow human being. Since the contact was short-lived, I realized that there was the possibility that the greeting wasn’t even meant for me. I acknowledged that OJ was simply flashing his famous smile at everyone, sort of like the priest sprinkling Holy Water over the congregation in a quick pass down the aisle.
Even though I knew that the encounter meant nothing to OJ, I stood a little taller and felt a tad more important than I had before. It was a moment that I will never forget.